Masculine & Feminine Dynamiiiiiiiiiiccc

OMG. This is a topic I LOVE. <3   I’m a very curious person,and of course this is a hot topic for many people.I came across very nice material from dating experts, and you may think it is bulshit, but give it a try and just read here!

I was TOTALLY not aware of many of my behaviours in my “dating experiences”.As I started reading,I got very nice insights, and one of them for example was a shock for me: don’t misunderstand me,but I realized I had been using lots of masculine energy!

First of all: We have both of them inside us, and we can draw from either depending on the situation. Feminine attracts masculine… and of course masculine attracts feminine.

Lots of guys (I mean straight guys) confuse being kind to a woman with being in the feminine energy. They think that by acting in the feminine energy, then they are being DIFFERENT than those rude guys who treat woman bad. There is a difference here (I will explain it!). And there are women, (I mean straight women) , SPECIALLY nowadays that  women are also in the workforce as much as men, which confuse being an independent woman with being in the masculine energy.

In my mind for example, lots of the “girly” attitudes would sound like I would be subservient or submissive. But… that’s completely false.Feminine and Masculine are equally powerful. (There are lots movies about powerful woman which use their female traits to the fullest ,and that’s where their power comes from.HEY: I’m NOT talking about MANipulation).

So! Masculine is: Cognitive,up in your head,logical,good at making plans,efficiency, competitive,wanting to win,wanting to build, and they like pursuing…

Feminine is: Intuition, Creative Capacity, Colaboration, Team-Building, Connection,Communication, softness, warmth from your heart, nurturing,loves her body (connected to her body),and more emotional talk.

Insight: The most powerful leaders in the planet have their feminine energies well developed. It doesn’t matter I men or women: it is important for communication.

And this is what when I first learned made me look at men with different eyes (I love it): One of the biggest and deepest subconscious desires men have in their CORE is to DELIVER HAPPINESS to their woman.They want to provide pleasure!! (ownnnn!!!) They want to make sure that they can please us, and that we trust them.(OoooHHHH!! THIS IS SO CUTE!)!

So there is this Masculine – Feminine Dynamic.It is beautiful…

I absolutely love this idea here: “He can come home,and be healed FROM his long day being in his head,being all intellectual… and just be healed by your love of life and the pleasure that you get from your own body. Men want warmth.”  - Laureen Sheehan.

There is a very important DETAIL here. Woman must love their life. They must have their independency, their hobbies, their friends, the things they love doing for pampering themselves(maybe a massage, or dance lessons,or even watching a Disney movie which was part of their childhood).They must understand their feelings and be able to communicate it from a place of love and politeness. They can not be the whole day just waiting for their men.

This has NO CONNECTION with playing hard to get.NO!Some women believe that if they PRETEND they have “better things to do rather than caring about a men” then they will hav them. This is a MISTAKE because this comes from a place of FEAR and possibly bitterness. What I am talking about is that women must have a HEALTHY lifestyle,which she must recognize that she needs to have,no matter if she is single or married of dating.She needs to love herself.When she truly does it, that’s WHEN she is BRIGHT and SOFT and VERY FEMININE. She will of course attract a healthy men too.A men who respects her as much as SHE does.Or if she attracts who is not boyfriend material ready, then she will be able to recognize them wisely.

Also, when a woman is truly living  her femininity to the fullest, she can draw the masculine gifts out of her partner, and then they can really build a healthy relationship.

Both men and women like a confident partner.Women like to feel like they are “protected”, and this is not just about physical force.When a MAN truly loves who is is, is TRULLY confident and comfortable with himself (not pretending, because it leaks),then a woman can sense it.

The same for men. They can “feel” when a woman is truly in love with her life….

A good example of Masculine-Feminine Dynamic that I saw in an interview is Salsa Dancing: The first step is always the woman steps back and create space for the man as he steps forward. The men iniciate every move and turn, BUT ALL EYES ARE ON HER.She is the celebrant. HE uses his MASCULINE energy to put all the attention on HER. (This is SOOOO BEAUTIFUL! Aiaiaiaiaiaiii!) ….

So… these are some new ideas to entertain about the relationship world. There are much more of course,and nice examples in practical life. I hope it can make sense someone there too, as it does for me! !!!

J